The holiday season is to be full of love and joy, however being humans we can never leave well enough alone. Between shopping, sending cards, parties, decorating, ...... Our stress level goes into overdrive. Here are some tips that might help bring back the love and joy and decrease the stress. 

Christmas Cards/Letters - Emergency Decorations  - Emergency Gifts - Hard to impossible to Wrap Items - Survive the Parties  - Turn the little headaches into fun times   - Entertaining in the home

Turn the little headaches into fun times

Hate cleaning the house for company, invite a friend over to help. Then help them when they are fixing to entertain.

Gift wrapping, have several friends bring their gifts, tape, and paper. Turn it into a wrapping party, serving munches. This way you always have that extra set of fingers you always need. Also you can swap wrapping paper and ribbon.

Too much food to cook at one time, let a friend help by doing some at her house.  Than return the favor.

Many foods can be prepared, weeks ahead of time. By planning ahead, all you will have to do is pull it out of the freezer, and bake. Just think all the good smells, with almost no mess.

Bored kids - If you own some holiday videos, this is the time to dig them out. Swap out with friends. You can even rent them for almost nothing.  Or if you would prefer something a little better, set-up a little craft area. Stock it with all the basic supplies: white paper, construction paper, scissors, glue, colors, pipe cleaners, scraps of fabric, scraps of wrapping paper, and if you dare.......glitter. You will get a little peace, and they will have something to be proud of.

Holiday grocery shopping can be a killer if you work. See if you can take off early one day. Grocery stores are almost empty during week-days. Then enjoy the time you would normally have to be in the store, doing something you never have time for.

Ohhhhh the wonderful food, so many great dishes, so many calories. Don't deprive your self, sit back and enjoy every little morsel you place in your mouth. Eat enough to satisfy those taste buds, then stop. Then watch what you eat during normal times. Just think about how good that gingerbread cookie is going to smell, and taste.
 

Survive the parties
 

The Food
 
• Don't try to loose weight during the holidays. There is something for just holding onto the pre-season weight.
• Eat before attending, and party.
• Arrive a little late, and leave a little early. Less exposure to food, can't hurt.
• Go of the low calorie drinks: diet soft drinks, coffee, hot tea... After all you are the designated driver, right?
• Keep the hands busy, offer to help the hostess with music, dirty dishes, taking pictures.. anything but serving

Entertaining in the home - Keeping everyone busy from 9 to 90
 

This the time of year that your are likely to have more than normal amount of entertaining to do. Most times your guests will have something in common. However during the holidays, you could end up with a very diverse groups of people to entertain.

Simple arts and crafts are great for the kids big and small. As they will be the first to become bored. Clear out a corner of a room that is off the beaten path, like a bedroom. Set up a little work station, colors, paper, scissors, glue, etc.

For the grown ups, try to set-up at least two different sections to sit, as a rule they will break off into small groups and talk. By offering the little extra room, the noise level won't be too bad.

Now for the games. One of the great things about the holidays is that it brings out the "kid" in all of us.
 

Place the star on the tree.
Much like pin the tail on the donkey. Draw a Christmas tree on a large piece of paper. Tape to the back of a door or a wall. Draw and cut enough stars for every guest to have his own. Have each guest write his/her name on the star.
Then one at a time, blind fold them, place a piece of double stick tape on the back of the star, and have them try to place it on the top of the tree. For an added extra, have the adults hit the kids craft area and make a paper
decoration for the tree. When the game is over with, you may wish to roll it up and use it next year as a keepsake. It might bring good memories, if the guests are older family members, that may not be with you many more Christmas'

How many words.
Give each person a piece of paper with "Merry Christmas" written across the top. Give them 5 minutes to write as many words as they can using the letters from "Merry Christmas". The person with the most words wins.

Gift swap.
Wrap enough gifts for each person to receive one. These can be token gifts. Like a big Christmas cookie, or just little inexpensive items. Have each person write their name down on two pieces of paper. Place all the names in a box. Now draw the first name, this person can pick any gift they wish, and open it. Now draw the second name, this person may either pick a new gift or take the one from the person that already has one. If they take the other person's gift, that person may pick a new one. Now the third name is drawn. They may take a new one, or any one of the gifts already picked. This continues until all the names have been drawn. By having each name in twice, it gives them a chance to get the gift back that some one took. I have played this game a many parties, and is always enjoyed.

What is it?
Write down things that have to due with the season. Some easy while others may offer a little more thought. Fold in half and place in a box. Divide folks into groups of three or four. Have a person from the first group, pick one of the pieces of paper. They now must draw a picture of it. The first group, to guess what it is wins the round. Then have a person from the second group do a drawing, and so on until everyone has done one. The group with the most points
wins. Some suggestions: SNOW, WINTER, SNOWMAN, SILENT NIGHT, CHRISTMAS DINNER, LEFTOVERS, MANAGER, Rudolph, CHRISTMAS MORNING, ...

Tell a story
With everyone together, have the first person start to make-up a Christmas story. They only need to do the first couple of lines, then the next person adds on to it, this continues to the last person who must end the story. (Once upon a time there was a Frog named Rudolph. All the other frogs use to pick on him. (next person) Then one day Rudolph decided to go to the North Pole and ask Santa for a job. (next person) On the way he....

Days gone by
Have each person write down either their favorite or funniest story that has happened to them during a Christmas. Gather all the stories, shuffle them, and pass them out. Have each person read one. Then let everyone try to guess who's
story it is.

Grab a nice looking goblet, place a colored votive candle in it, tie a matching colored Christmas ribbon around the base or stem.

Hang some Christmas tree ornaments from the ceiling, be sure everyone will be able to walk under them. By using fishing line the will appear to be floating in mid air, narrow ribbon with a small bow will accent them.

Lost a napkins ring? - Pull out some of that Christmas ribbon, from the closet. Gently tie round napkins. If you glasses are stemmed, a simple matching bow there will make it looked planned.

Centerpiece just got knocked off the table, and guests are expected to arrive any minute

1. Simply wipe some gold gilding on apples some apples and pairs, place in a glass bowl.

2. Take some fresh fruit, moisten with water. drag through a bowl of sugar. It magic.. frosted fruit. Arrange on a Christmas plate or glass dish.
 

1. No 2 pieces are alike, but all have something in common. Either shape, type of material made from....

2. Each individual has a matching set, but no two people have the same set.
 

Spray paint some mixed nuts (in the shell) with silver and gold metallic paint, place in a nice bowl, trim with come ribbon. Don't eat the painted nuts!
 

Emergency Gifts

You have finished all your shopping, used the extra gifts you had stashed, and now you find that you missed someone. There is no time to make something, and the thought of going to the mall or discount store sends a shiver down your back. Try shopping at the local grocery store. Most grocery stores carry more than just food.

The average person - Grab a nice looking coffee mug and:

a small package gourmet coffee.
several packets of gourmet hot chocolate
fill with candy
a small plant

For a family make it  set of mugs, each mug having something different
 

Write the kid's name on the pail or tub, than fill with the goodies.

The hobbyist - Pick up a magazines that specialize in the hobby, call or mail an subscription for the person and wrap the copy you bought with a note tell them their subscription will start in a couple of issues.

Health nuts - Pick up a nice large bowl, flower pot, or basket, fill with fresh fruit.
 

Hard to impossible to Wrap Items......No problem
 

Tickets, and gift certificates, and other small flat gift are normally placed in an envelope. If you wish to be different, place them in a "Cracker Wrapper". Simply use either the cardboard from bath tissue, or cut the cardboard from a roll of paper towels, or ever wrapping paper. Place the item in the tube, wrap by rolling the wrapping paper around the tube, gather the ends and tie off with ribbon. This will also work for small gifts, that came with out a box.

Bikes, Trikes, and riding lawn mowers, are just too big to wrap. Not to mention a real pain to get in the house. There are two ways to handle these.

1. Take a picture of the item, and wrap it.
2.  Wrap something that goes with it, and watch their face as figure out what is happening.

Christmas bags can be handy, of course they don't hid the gift well. If you choose to use bags, buy some white garbage bags, using a stencils spray paint christmas designs on it. Tie if off with a matching ribbon.

Christmas Cards/Letters

Make a list, figure how many cards and stamps you will need.

Need a zip code? U.S. Postal Service

If you are wanting to let them know how the family has been doing this year, pick up some commercial Christmas paper, or design you own. Using a nice Christmas font, make a Christmas letter to send rather than a card. Here are some basic rules of Christmas letters:

• Tho shall not solicit. This includes for charities, having a Tupperware party, and especially that new business you are starting.
• Tho shall not brag. If you got a promotion, mention it, skip the $$ details. Hit only the high lights of the kids activities, not a blow by blow listing of how little Joey won the state championship.
• Keep it personal, after don't forget the reason your are sending it.